Choosing a preschool feels overwhelming because it is the first big education decision you make for your child. Here is the checklist we recommend after speaking to hundreds of parents across India.
1. Start with distance, not brand
A preschooler should not spend more than 15 to 20 minutes commuting. A "better" school 45 minutes away is worse than a good school around the corner. Shortlist within a 3 to 4 km radius first.
2. Understand the curriculum labels
- Playway, learning through games and activity. Most Indian chains use a variant of this.
- Montessori, self-directed activity with specific materials. Ask if teachers are actually Montessori-trained, not just the signboard.
- Reggio Emilia / Waldorf, project-based, expression-led. Rare and usually premium.
Don't over-index on the label. Execution matters more than philosophy.
3. Check the teacher-child ratio
For ages 2 to 4, look for 1 adult per 10 children or better (including helpers/didis). Ask how many children are in the class and how many adults are present the whole time, then verify on your visit.
4. Visit during a working day
A scheduled tour shows you the school at its best. Ask if you can come during regular hours. Watch how teachers speak to children when they think nobody is watching.
5. Safety basics that are non-negotiable
- CCTV in classrooms and play areas (ask if parents get access)
- A verified pickup policy, who can collect your child and how is it checked
- Child-height washrooms and an attendant policy
- First-aid trained staff and a nearby doctor tie-up
6. Fees: get the real number
The advertised fee is rarely the full amount. Ask for the all-inclusive annual figure: admission fee, kit/material charges, uniform, transport, annual day, and "activity fees". Reputable schools give this in writing.
7. Talk to current parents
Stand outside at pickup time and talk to two or three parents. Five minutes of honest conversation beats every brochure.
The one-question test
If you can only ask one thing, ask: "What does a normal Tuesday look like here?" Schools that answer with specifics, circle time, free play, snack, story, run real programs. Schools that answer with adjectives are selling you a brochure.